If you are on any pedestal that is limiting your productivity it’s time to get off it and smell the roses. Come down to the ground level and roll with the butterflies in the field, breathe in some natural fresh air and tumble across the hills. These simple life tips tells us how we can live and love selflessly while mainting a productive, successful life.
“It’s not what we do that attracts people, it’s how we think”
It’s really OK to be kind, happy, warm, down-to-earth, modest,humble, nice to other people even as a successful person. If you say you are not genetically inclined, (as I heard someone say) or status demands it, it can be learned as a habit. It is easier this way to attract further productivity. Here are some paraphrased tips on how to treat others compiled originally by M.Jaksch accompanied by relevant music I selected to share with you .
1. Focus on the good in people.
None of us is perfect. We all have traits that make us difficult to live with. It’s easy to focus on what is difficult. Instead, look for what is good and strong. If you do catch yourself focusing on negative aspects, remind yourself that you too have faults.
When we smile, we become mindful and step out of our preoccupation. No matter how you connect with others, remember to smile. Whether you’re connecting face-to-face, or via Twitter, email, chat, Skype, or phone, your inner and outer smile will be felt by the person you are connecting with.
3. Let go of grudges.
Do you stew over how others have treated you? It can be difficult to release yourself from negative thoughts about how someone harmed you or made you unhappy. Such negative thoughts are corrosive and will harden your heart. So let them go and focus on the beauty of the present moment instead.
4. Be a positive mirror for others.
Make sure you let the people around you know all the wonderful things you can see in them. There is a lovely poem by Galway Kinnell that talks about this:
… sometimes it is necessary
to reteach a thing its loveliness,
to put a hand on its brow
of the flower
and retell it in words and in touch
it is lovely
until it flowers again from within, of self-blessing.
5. Be helpful.
The key to creating lasting relationships is to think about what you can do for others. Selflessly loving.
6. Be kind.
Kindness is never out of place.
Proverbs 11:17 A man who is kind benefits himself, but a cruel man hurts himself.
7. Be grateful.
And then express your gratitude to God, people, in words and deeds. Everyone loves being valued.
Have a Gratitude Attitude!
Bonus Tips For Productivity
When you are productive, you become Happy! 😀
Beautifully Dreaming, Positively Doing…